I just thought I'd pop in for a sec....I'll respond more later.
Leslie, girl I'm so sorry to hear what all went on last week!! My heart goes out to you and you will be in my prayers. That is so scary to find a lump. (OK- it's gonna get a little personal here------>) I know that we women are supposed to check monthly, but I never have. My reason is the number one reason: It scares me to death that if I do, I will find something- which is the whole point of doing the self exams, I know. If there's ANYTHING we can do, let us know- we're here for you. Keep the faith- you *do* have Someone looking out for you.

I'll reply more later, I just really had to say that.